Well today's blog has nothing to do with my camera.. but i really must pen it down...To remind myself and every GUY around me on the love of a woman.
I am in Sandakan Hospital today to commission a few obstetric beds(the beds where our mum use to lie on when giving us the first glimpse of the world). So i was there doing my usual SOP (standard of procedure) suddenly i saw a woman giving birth!! I didnt see very clearly but from the way she was place on the obstetric bed, i know what is going on. Then the Sister quickly shut the curtain. Please, i am not a bit HAM SAP ok..
During that time, i believe it is the most sacred moment of everyone's life.
A Mother fighting every strength she has got within herself to give life to the baby with whom she is in love with.
i was there (outside the curtain of course) during the whole process, from the moment the nurses-cum-cheerleader around her cheering and giving her support (ya, kuat lagi, sikit lagi.. sikit lagi, kuat lagi, sikit lagi... ) until the moment where i heard (for the first time in my life) the first cry of the newborn.
Its very hard to describe the atmosphere in writing but i just have to say
Mother's Love is the Greatest
Just imagine (guys), imagine u have a real painful constipation.. let say your shit(usually in log-like shape) circumference is around 2 inches in diameter la, and its rock hard inside your anus,.. try imagine you wanted to push that freaking rock or LOG out of your exit.. You will be crying for help and felt as if your anus gonna crack wider... i have the personal experience in this and believe me, i give up and i left the bathroom with that log still inside me.. Then i drank a few big glasses of water and continue the job. Its one pain that i will remember for the rest of my life.
And that is just a 2 inches diameter log.
Imagine your mum when trying to give birth to you, though u are tiny, but your tiny little head still will almost give 5 inches of diameter! And she cant tell the nurse halfway "Boleh stop skejap ah, banyak penat o... sakit tak payah cakap la.., boleh ka.?? minum air dulu ka??" If she stop half way, well you can say goodbye to the world and start queuing again la (for reborn) ...
-18 SX -
those who are still young (stupid) enough to NOT know what love making is about, please leave the page.
have you seen those japanese porn movies? Look at the girls face the moment the penetration begins ( i am trying to be as intellectual as possible, i dont want to be link to gutteruncensored blog... yet), some of them almost cried. (Dont talk about those kwai poh la, those fella i really believe they can shove anything inside one.. like black hole) And Japanese guys male organ is not anywhere near the newborn's head circumference. So now can you (guys) do the maths, how much pain your mum or your wife (be it future or present) endure when they are giving birth to you or your offsprings?
Let me share something i found out from my wife to all the ignorant guys out there, when woman are in labor, if their vagina are not big enough, doctor would have to
USE SCISSORS TO CUT IT TO MAKE THE OPENING BIGGER!!!
Imagine, when u are in real pain-in-the-ass, literally, due to constipation, then the doctor told you
"Sir, i would have to cut open your anus to ease the congestion within your exit"
hahahhahaha... i believe, every guys who read it right now will sit with their leg cross thightly...
So back to the point,
Please love the women in your life.
Love your mum as she struggle with death ( it is, back in 20 or 30 years back, mortality rate is higher amongst pregnant woman) to give life to you. LOVE THEM and RESPECT THEM like how you would ASS-LICK your boss for salary increment.
Love your wife, as she is fighting the pain that you (guys) will never get to feel (lucky bastard hahaha), to give birth to your child. Woman is not purposely made for man to give birth to your child. They do it because they love you so much that they want you to be happy to be a dad, they just want to show you their utmost love. Some pretty shallow brain out there still dare to blame their wife when they have got whatever they dont want . This kind of man, really should get a big tight slap on their stupid face.
LOVE YOUR WIFE like how you would love yourself, if possible, love them more than yourself because when they give birth to your child, they never think of their own risk, they just want to give you a child. They dont mind if they would die in the middle of the process. Woman are the greatest.
God really treated us guys very very very good as compared to the woman. only the woman would need to bear this kind of inexplainable pain. So please compensate god's love to them with yours.
so,
GIVE THESE TWO WOMEN IN YOUR LIFE , EVERY DROP OF LOVE THAT YOU HAVE WITHIN YOU AS THEY HAVE ALREADY DID.
p/s I am not saying woman who cant give birth is not loving their husband 101%. Just the thought of getting pregnant with your baby has exceeded the love scale.
Just my 2 cents..
Pink, Red, Yellow
Pink= love
Red= Courage
Yellow= Majestic
